How to update W-4 to break even or get refund

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Having multiple jobs can increase the likelihood of owing federal income tax at the end of the year. Here's why: 

1. Under-withholding:

• Each job assumes you have only one source of income. When you fill out your W-4 form for each job, they typically withhold taxes as if that were your sole income. This means that the tax withholdings may not be enough to cover your total tax liability from all sources of income. 
• Progressive tax system. The US uses a progressive tax system where your tax rate increases as your income rises. Having a second job can push your total income into a higher tax bracket. 

2. Limited Standard Deduction:

• You can only claim one standard deduction on your tax return, regardless of the number of jobs you hold. If each of your jobs is not taking this into account, your overall taxable income might be higher than anticipated.

3. Incorrect W-4 Form:

• Outdated or inaccurate information on your W-4 forms, especially regarding allowances or multiple jobs, can equal under-withholding. 

4. Other income sources without withholding:

• You have a side job/self-employment you'll need to account for those when determining your tax liability.