Do you get it directly from the retirement plan or does your ex send it to you? If it comes from the plan you should be getting your own 1099R for it.
Enter a 1099R under Federal Taxes Wages & Income Then scroll way down to Retirement Plans and Social Security Then IRA, 401(k), Pension Plan Withdrawals (1099-R) – Click Start
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